The Separation Agreement Kit · for men in Ontario
The Separation Agreement Kit
Build the deal before the lawyers bill.
Lawyers quote $2,000 and up to get a separation agreement drafted — and the meter runs fastest when you arrive with nothing decided. This kit is the prep system: the issues list, the full term sheet, and the disclosure record that turn the retainer into a review.
Lawyers quote $2,000+ in retainers to get an agreement drafted. This is $19, and it walks in with you. A complete, one-time download. No subscription.
Not sure yet? Take the free 2-minute audit and see where you stand first.
The template is the trap. The prep is the protection.
Free agreement templates are everywhere, and Ontario courts can and do set aside signed agreements — missing disclosure, one side who didn't understand, a signature under pressure. The men who do this twice are the men who started from a template.
What holds up is a properly drafted agreement built on full disclosure and independent legal advice. What this kit builds is everything before that: every issue named, your position on each written down, the disclosure gathered — so the paid hours go to advice, not figuring-out.
What is inside
What the $19 buys
A working prep system, not a pamphlet: the issues list that maps your whole deal, term-sheet worksheets for parenting, child support, spousal support, and property, the set-aside test that shows how agreements die and how yours won't, a disclosure exchange tracker, the path decision (kitchen-table, mediation, or lawyer-led — priced honestly), three word-for-word scripts, and the sign-seal-file checklist that makes support terms enforceable.
Six protection fronts
- Know what a separation agreement settles.
- Your terms — the kids and the support.
- Your terms — the property, the home, the debts.
- The five ways agreements die — and how yours won't.
- Pick the route that fits — and price it before you start.
- The last mile — signing it right and making it count.
Plus the tools that do the hardest parts for you
- The ILA hour — make it the best money in the whole deal.
- The Exposure Audit — see where you stand in two minutes.
How it works
You can have it open and working tonight.
No waiting, no shipping, nothing to set up. Four steps from buying it to filling in your first page.
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Buy it
A one-time purchase through Stripe. No subscription, nothing recurring.
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Get instant access
It opens in your Cairn account the moment you pay — read it on this device, right now.
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Choose your format
Type into it on your computer and save, or print it and write by hand. Your call.
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Start tonight
Take the two-minute audit, see where you stand, and read the front you are most exposed in first.
Walk in with the deal. Pay for the advice.
Lawyers quote $2,000+ in retainers to get an agreement drafted. This is $19, and it walks in with you. One-time. Yours to keep. Full refund within 14 days if it does not help.
Fill-on-your-computer
Type & save, on any device.
Print-and-fill by hand
Print it and write on the page.
You choose your format after purchase. The online reader is included either way.
Questions men ask first
Before you buy.
Cairn · cairnguide.ca. The information applies to Ontario.