How it works

    From not-knowing-where-to-start to a clear plan. In four stages.

    Five-minute intake. Free. No credit card. Built for Ontario.

    Father and son walking home on the sidewalk on a beautiful summer evening.

    Before you begin

    The shape of this guide.

    Four things to know before the first step.

    The path

    Four stages, in order.

    Each stage builds on the last. You can pause anywhere — Cairn keeps your place.

    1

    Tell us your situation

    A short, calm intake collects the basics — children, court status, the issues you need to resolve, and any urgent concerns. Plain-language questions, one at a time. About five minutes.

    2

    See your options clearly

    We explain the paths people in similar situations commonly take — with timelines, estimated costs, effort, and honest pros and cons. The decision is yours to make.

    3

    Follow your personalised plan

    Your plan is broken into weekly steps across the five areas that matter: Legal, Parenting, Financial, Wellbeing, and Life Reset. Check things off as you go. Each completed step is a stone placed on the trail.

    4

    Prepare your documents

    For Form 8, Form 13.1 (financial statement), and Form 35.1 (parenting affidavit), Cairn walks you through the content in plain language. You arrive at the courthouse or paralegal's office ready — not panicked.

    Want a number first?

    See your support numbers before you sign up.

    Plug in two incomes and a parenting time arrangement. We'll show you what child and spousal support actually look like in Ontario, and what you'd have left in your account every two weeks. No email. No account.

    Common questions

    Before you start.

    The four questions every man asks first. Open whichever one fits.

    Ready when you are

    Five minutes to know where you stand.

    The intake is free. No credit card. You'll see your scenario and your first next step before you decide anything else.

    • ·Your specific Ontario plan, free, in five minutes
    • ·Your real support estimates — no credit card
    • ·The one next step that's right for your situation
    • ·14-day money-back promise on any paid tier
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