Before the lawyers · before the paperwork

No one hands you a map the day this starts.

The free 35-page guide to your first 90 days of Ontario separation — read it here, no email needed.

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The First 90 Days

Inside this guide

What you’re about to read.

01Understanding where you are.
02The path forward — four routes through separation.
03Your home — what you need to know right now.
04The first 90 days — what to actually do.
05The road beyond 90 days.
06When to involve a professional.

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Six parts, about ninety minutes end-to-end. Each section stands on its own — read straight through, or jump to the section that fits your situation.

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Cairn · cairnguide.ca. This guide provides general information about Ontario family law and the separation process. It is not legal advice. The information in this guide applies to Ontario and does not account for your individual circumstances. Laws change, and you should verify current information with a licensed professional. If your situation involves domestic violence, urgent safety concerns, or complex legal or financial matters, seek professional advice immediately. © 2026 Cairn This guide may be shared freely in its complete, unmodified form.